Most of us live very busy, fast paced, and at times stressful lives. We often find ourselves in such a rush that we don’t pay attention to who or what is going on around us. This can influence how we feel in the moment, how we present ourselves, and also have an impact on those around us whether we know them or not.

I had just gotten out of my car and was about to walk across the Chick-fil-a parking lot when I noticed a car backing up in the drive thru. I stopped so I was not in their way and watched as they turned and pulled forward to park. The drive thru line was pretty long so I assumed they were in a hurry and decided to go inside since there were less people in line in the lobby.

As I passed by the lady who was driving was getting out of her car while talking on the phone. Since I made it to the door first I decided to hold it open for her. This appeared to surprise her. She smiled, said “Thank you,” and walked through the doorway.

After walking through myself I found her just standing in front of the second set of doors still talking on the phone. As I approached she said “I liked that and decided to wait for you to do it again.” I smiled and opened the second door for her.

“Never underestimate the impact that a small act of kindness can have on someone else and their life.”

Once inside a register was open with no one waiting and she offered to let me go in front of her. I told her “No that is ok you go ahead.” She thanked me and ordered her food.

When it was my turn I kindly greeted the person behind the register, let them know what I wanted, and paid for it. My order was pretty simple so I did not have to wait. They got it for me immediately, I thanked them, we wished each other a great day, and I turned to walk towards the door and leave.

On my way out I had to walk by the lady on the phone as she waited for her order. She was still on the phone talking but as she saw me reach for the door she yelled out “Have a great day!”

I turned to look at her and with a smile on my face said “Thank you! I hope you have a great day also!”

“If you are having a tough day and want to feel better do something nice for someone else. Helping others will lift your spirits.”

Walking to my car I found myself deep in thought. Thinking about how good I felt in that moment and the difference a kind gesture, a smile, and a few kind words can have on us, our day, and others.

“This week try to greet everyone you know by looking them in the eye, smiling, and offering them a few kind words when you see them.”