Leadership means being able to influence others to work towards a common set of goals. In order for you to be able to influence someone and inspire them to follow you they have to first trust you.
Trust is not something that comes easy though. For someone to trust you they have to feel like they know you, what you stand for, and be able to believe in you. That could take some time and lots of observation.
People will have an idea of who you are by what you communicate to them and how. However, they will really get to know who you are and what you stand for by the decisions you make, the actions you take, and the behaviors you display.
To be an effective leader and gain the trust of others you must make sure your actions are consistent with what you communicate.
About willieryder
Willie Ryder spent 10 years in the United States Marine Corps working in Communications and Information Technology in multiple different Leadership roles. He then went to work at Microsoft where he has been for almost 15 years now working in Engineer, Manager, and Leadership roles.
Willie is very passionate about his personal and professional development and also helping others grow. Especially our next generation. He was an active member in Toastmasters for 8 years where he worked on his Communications and Leadership skills and has mentored many others in these areas.
Willie has been a year round youth basketball coach at www.YesICanBasketball.com for 13 years where he has had the wonderful opportunity to work with and coach 100's of kids of all ages. The past 6 years he has regularly volunteered to speak about character traits and mentor kids at the nearby public elementary schools. Over the last 3 years he has been a volunteer mentor with the nonprofit organization www.RightMovesForYouth.org where he tries to make a positive impact on some of the local High School students.
Willie has been married to Jennifer for 24 years. They have 2 daughters, a son, and a Siberian Husky. In his free time he enjoys spending time with family, attending and serving at Elevation Church, Coaching youth basketball, Writing, Public Speaking, Reading, and Running.
Willie Ryder - A Dreamer on a Journey 